I Really Need To Do Something

About Mother.  She is just so miserable and there is nothing I can do about it.  I want to look into respite care.  I talked about it with her once, but when it came to calling them she didn't want to do it.  There is an Adult Day Care around here but I know we won't be able to afford it and I don't know that her insurance covers it.  I'll keep looking.  I don't know what to do I wish I could just shove her in the home and people would leave me the hell alone.  But I just have to ride this until that IS what happens or something I don't know, I just do not know.